Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. I am sorry! Also, It doesnt suit me. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? M. % would be more ambient but felt imo Maria dear. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. Thanks for your help Amiann. In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. 5. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. It is like sky diving. I have to always be honest. Soul mate & karmic relationship point synastry - MoonsEye Astrology in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. I am not asking you to do mine either. Great questions. That doesnt mean youve never been married. And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? Ami, hello. 10. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. Vertex conjunct the ascendant is a frequent synastry aspect in the charts of romantic partners. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. Thank you, Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? The chart never lies, my Friend. Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. How will these aspects play out? Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. To me, it always is. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. Hey there! It is just the North Node, after all, not a personal planet. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. As far as the form of abuse, one must look at the sign and the quadriplicity( cardinal, fixed or mutable) One must look at the chart to see how the abuse will play out but I think that abuse will occur in your situation with Nessus conjunct Dejanira. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Grace dear I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. Those interpretations CAN happen, but they are not destined to. My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). Thanks SO much for your kind words. I feel like it helps me. If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. Pluto conjunct Lilith in Synastry | Astrologers' Community With asteroids, I would accept a 3 degree conjunction, tops. We all have Liliths plutonic quality in us, the unconscious energy that brings up harsh boundaries between life and death, ecstasy and suffering, passion and revulsion, enslavement and freedom. Thank you so much, Love. Is this you? I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. . Sun and Lilith aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you - 12andus Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! Eros in Synastry - Astrology Anonymous Oops, sorry Amiann. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. That is why it is so powerful. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. Eros: Essential Sexual Contact or Icing on the Cake? Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? But I do see this possibly helping people with many bad aspects that could show any possibility of abuse in their own chart already whom have actually been through anything so that this can help them feel validated about past or current pains, but its not good to deem things as going to play out in time just because they havent yet in a long standing, healthy relationship. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. Lovely and very filled with passion! Welcome, Britt. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. Ami is an insightful astrology. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! ? His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. on Dejanira and Nessus. There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Thats weird. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. The issue is that me disagreeing with you being fatalistic (because what you say is not what always happens, not even 60% of the time because I have nessus/dejanira aspects with most people that are close to me, and I have never been abused or attacked in any of those relationships) does not mean that Im not accepting the truth. Ten Conjunctions to the Vertex in Synastry - My Christian Psychic Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? How would it play out if my boyfriends Dejanira is conjunct my venus/juno conjunction but my venus/juno is part of a grand trine with my midheaven and also my moon/Bella/mars/pluto conjunction? I've never experienced it myself, but have read that Lilith/Pluto contacts are also intensely sexual and even violent (particularly the opposition). The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. What does that mean? Theyre still deeply in love and their synastry and composite charts support it. Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. Asteroids in Synastry Chart, Astrology online calculator - Astro-Seek.com People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. I am prone to being attacked in this way. Dejanira trines my Ascendant. That Pluto/DSC has been a source of confusion and frustration for me for a while, but now it makes sense. This is not a dark aspect, either. We have no moon aspects will this help? Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. Nessus conjuncts BML, and Dejanira conjuncts DSC and Pluto. My Nessus square his Venus Thank you Ivs. Then my Nessus is 29 Cancer in almost exact opposition with the child asteroid at 28 Cap. All of astrology is neutral. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? YOU are the most important person to me. Eros & Psyche in. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. Wow. It always starts this way. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. Hi! It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. As such, Nessus seems out to be the abuser and Deja the victim. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? I know somebody whose Moon conjuncts his Dejanira (30 minutes). If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. Hi Ami. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. Lets see. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. 3. Dejanira (female) conjunct Saturn (male) However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. You could post it in my Forum if you would like, Eva. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. I'm still not even sure if Eros/Lilith contacts are positive or negative? We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. Which probably held it together for SO long. I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. I would put Moon/Pluto first in terms of super connection and passion and Venus/Pluto second. If you know, let me know! If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. Ascendant opposite ascendant (1st house on the 7th house overlay). Past Life Indicators in Synastry and Karmic Relationships - Astrology More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . Everyone should have one once in a lifetime, I suppose. Amazingly accurate. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. I, always, have people want to tell me that Nessus is not always abuse. under what theme of the forum? You are very welcome, my Friend. With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. Thank you, Kay <3 Thank you for your response, I appreciate it very much. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. Wow, Pluto conj the DSC may be looking for partners who have strong primal power and you may not have accessed your own. Or can my Sun hurt the person. Yes, that is a good way to put it. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. I admire your wisdom. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. Eros conjunction sun and lucky point.. and mercury, uranus, pluto and venus in house seven, libra. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. The Lilith conjunct Mars synastry aspect means that this relationship is made up of two fighters. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts.